• What do you do when a blogger bails? by Icy Snow Blackstone

    Nine times in a four-month span, I’ve had people I’ve scheduled for the three websites I maintain not come through with their blogs. Then, I had to scramble and dip into my reserve of Emergency Blogs File to fill in the blanks.

    There’s an SOP for scheduling a blog: 1) Either I invite someone or they ask me. 2) I offer a choice of available dates; they select one, or if they aren’t choosy, I simply pick one for them. 3) Then, I explain the rules: I update the blogs every Friday. The article has to be in that writer’s file by the Wednesday before. All pictures must be jpgs. 4) They agree.

    Everything’s copasetic. Right?

    Wrong. At this point, one quarter apparently forget, erasing it completely from their minds. Or they expect me to be like their mothers and remind them continually: Don’t forget. You have a blog coming up! Don’t forget that blog. Got your blog written?

    I’m only human, much as I hate to admit it. I try to keep track of everyone; I even bought a calendar just for that purpose, with each website and each blogger, etc., listed. As soon as a date is confirmed, I also tell my computer to save that person’s e-mail address. Alas, the computer appears to be as human as I. Sometimes, it doesn’t save it or the address is so far-fetched and removed from the person’s name, I can’t match it. Unfortunately, this particular system has no place for notations, such as “Name is Jane Smith but email address is polkadotsam@cox.net” or some other helpful info. So, outside of keeping a separate, written address book—which would be redundant and require severe cross-references (“Jane Smith, see polkadotsam; Sam, see polkadot also Jane Smith; also novel Hurry Along; also blog date Nov 26”) or some such, that doesn’t appear very feasible, as well as time-consuming—I’m stuck.

    If I do have the address, I send a reminder at the first of that particular week, but being only human (see shameful admission above ), I sometimes get involved in other piddly things (such as minor surgery, filing my tax returns, the birth of my granddaughter) and forget. So now the question arises: In the final analysis, who is responsible for remembering to turn in a blog? The person on whose website it will appear, or the person agreeing to write said item? To me, it would appear to be a 60-40 partnership. 60 to the person writing the blog, 40 to the person with the website. This would be another case of someone taking responsibility for her (I use that pronoun because most of my guests are female) actions, i.e., agreeing to write a blog. We can always rely on other people to call us, e-mail us, or in any other way remind us we have something to do. Besides, I’m offering them the opportunity to promote their novels. Can’t they at least do me the courtesy of sending me the information without a hassle?

    I admit I’m not without sin in this particular case. I’ve forgotten blogs, too, and had to be reminded. But—hey, I’m 70. Maybe not a good excuse, but… Give me a break!

    This isn’t aimed at everyone, just those recalcitrant few. To all those other writers who’ve sent their blogs in on time, or—bless their hearts!—have gotten them to me weeks ahead of their appointed date…a heartfelt Thank you! You’ve kept me from making that mad dash to the Emergency Blogs File.

    The real Icy Snow Blackstone was born in1802, in northern Georgia where her father, the Reverend John Blackstone, was prominent in local politics. She married a minister, raised at least seven children, one of whom also became a minister, and lived there all her life. The present Icy Snow Blackstone lives far from her Southern roots in Lancaster County, Nebraska, where she continues to write romances. She currently has had five novels published and has two more under contract with Class Act Books. More about Icy Snow and her novels may be found at http://www.icysnowblackstone.com/; Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000133428988; MySpace: http://www.myspace.com/icsnowblackstone; Twitter: @tonivsweeney


    Icy Snow’s latest novel is The Earthman’s Bride, available from Class Act Books: http://www.classactbooks.com/The-Earthmans-Bride-by-Icy-Snow-Blackstone-Trade-_p_343.html

    Comments 5 Comments
    1. Hey, Icy, I feel bad for you. About the only thing you can do is call on your trusty archives to put in something of general interest. But it is a huge disappointment.

      Tell you what, though. The next time that happens, if I can help out, I will. I have a few degrees in writing/lit, that type of thing, and I can usually be called on to come up with something on the subject of Ireland in the time of St. Patrick, a figure who continues to fascinate even after 1500 years. Let me know at erinsromance@yahoo.com. I always seem to be happiest in the role of helper, although I do like to promote also!

      You have a thoughtful blogsite, and I wish you all success. Slán, Erin
    1. Louisa Bacio's Avatar
      Icy Snow,

      I hear you on both accounts. I've missed a few dates, and usually that's because it's not on my calendar (when it should have been -- happens at the end of the year when I'm booking for the next) or it's slipped from my mind somehow. There are times when I know I have to blog on X date, and I've forgotten X is the date.

      I've also had authors forget about sending in material for my blog. And because of my few mind-slips, I understand that. I'll usually send a message beforehand as a reminder.

      What's funny is when you book a date, have posts ready or are waiting for questions, and the "host" has forgotten that you're supposed to be a guest ;-) Have you experienced that one?

      Great post!

      Louisa
    1. I have a couple of times, Louisa. And gotten the email "What's this for?" Explanations then fly back and forth, ending with "Glad one of us is alert!" It works both ways, doesn't it?
    1. Mandi Casey's Avatar
      Icy Snow,
      I've had bloggers give me their posts but forget to visit during the day to respond to the comments that I worked my circles to get for them, which is a drag. So... I end up replying to them myself, which doesn't bode well for the blogger that I'm hosting, IMO. I've found the hand calendar on my phone is critical in keeping track of my blogging life, either hosting or being a guest on someone else's blog.
      Great post!
      Mandi
    1. Meredith Ellsworth's Avatar
      Icy Snow, skipping out on a blog commitment is UNCONSCIONABLE. I disagree that it's a 60-40 relationship--I'd say more like 80-20--the guest blogger has committed to you to provide a blog, plus you're doing him/her a favor--this is after all free promotion. As to a calendar--what I do is actually copy & paste the initial request/blog information, dates of request, reply and scheduled post & anything else (if necessary the kitchen sink), onto my calendar. That way I have the blog link as well as email to send blog to, plus all the requirements (format etc.). Then at the top I always put a date 3-4 days BEFORE the blog is actually scheduled. That's the date I see so I make sure I finish the blog and send it early. Anyhoo, that said, could you use a guest blogger ? M. S. Spencer
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